PaTiEnCe and AccePTANcE

Someone close called and relayed her problem.
So she has come to a decision.
At first I thot her decision was based on anger, sorrow and disgrace.

The more she revealed the situation she is currently facing, I concluded that her decision is FINAL.
Tried to make her see the consequences of her intention.
She revealed even more!

Sometimes, patience is something that you have to inculcate within yourselves. Once inculcated, there goes the acceptance. Acceptance is merely an interim or interval in between ... I trust she went thru this as well. While during interval she might have done something to change the current situation... to correct things...
and yet the situation remained the same... and it was very disheartening to observe that she was the one who tried to her level best to make things work... and yet she failed.

Being human, I believe we have limits to our patience. There is always give and take... But in life when people start to take from you without giving back, you are actually being squezzed and grilled to your bone! When it is always YOU who have to give without getting the returns ... you will need to put a big FULLSTOP.

I pray to Allah that she will be given the guidance to follow thru her decision. That decison of hers is the first step for more challenges in future.Looking at her determination and courage, I believe she has all set and ready to Go.

From the bottom of my heart, I wish you well, May Allah be with You Always!
HE knows what's the BEST for each and everyone of us.
This must be a test of many others that we may never ever think of...