Sunday, October 10, 2010

Must it ends this way?

I always look forward for Sundays when it comes to reading news ... in all papers...
Just read HM and UM...

Looks like the news were more focusing on relationships -marriage. Some covered on divorce, some on marrital problems that would lead to divorce... Must it ends this way?

During my younger days or the early day of my marriage, I don't see this as an issue but nowadays problems in marriage are freely and openly dicsussed in media especially those of the celebrities... Is it a trend? or no longer a taboo? Only God knows why?

But I still believe marriage is something sacred ... two souls travelling the pathway of life as one...that should not be broken ..But today marriage is viewed differently. Some of us sailed thru for merely couple of years..even though the years of courting were declared to be perfect. Some struggle to ensure the institution remains solid and strong. Some lose the battles.... with/without fighthing.... Must it ends this way?

Well maybe the magic word here is LOVE. To me no matter how bad is the situation, if LOVE is still in command, any marriage can survive. It takes two to tango... So its a duty of both husband and wife.

As we grow older and wiser, when we found that our other half are not the person that we've known before and when we`are just like desperate souls .... we should be looking for a tune-up or a major revamp and ... we should search for one miracle tip that will whip our marriage back into shape... Its the beginning to rekindle the romance and keeps the fire burning...

To my beloved Hubby ... we've gone thru a lot...happiness, sadness and even madness through all these years... and alhamduliilah no matter what it takes and come what may... our LOVE still survives... I hope and pray hard that this LOVE will never end.

Dear hubby, thank you for all the love, patience and understanding ...
May our LOVE remains strong and valid till death do us apart..

To the love birds - Kama & Suzie who are tying the scared knot today..May both of you sail through the unpredictable waves and strong winds of the ocean... :)